Hello people.
Well, nothing much to say these few days.
I'm still praying for Grace.
Let's all pray for her. (:
Anyway, today did a stupid act.
When I went home today, I went inside the lift with a guy.
The guy asked me which floor and I replied "10th floor please, thank you."
& then he pressed the 6th floor for him and the 10th floor for me.
In the end, the 6th floor reached already & I went out with him.
& He was like staring at me yeh!
Initially I didn't know it was the 6th floor because the lift was quite long,
& worse still I was wondering "oh, my neighbour change their window grills it looks so much new!"
Until I realise that oh, it was the 6th floor, & I had to climb up to my own floor storey -.-
What a dumb person I am.
Haha.
I think the person must be thinking, "Why did this person bluff me, say going to the 10th floor but alight at the 6th floor"
Haha.
Because I was too engross in my own world :D:D:D:D
Nothing much too.
Went to Jurong Gardens School today
The kids there are cute & warmth too :D:D:D:D
Though did not interact with the kids, the kids whom I walked past was already waving to us.
Felt very welcome there. (:
I love that place. (:
"Happiness is a choice that requires effort at times."
-Anon
tkcare, oneandonly-grace
gRace"]
Thursday, October 18, 2007
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Tuesday, October 16, 2007
Ahh, firstly, I would like to congratulate my blog because yesterday was the 200th post. :D:D:D:D
Next, I know everyone is worried about the results tomorrow.
So do I.
However, what done is done.
You cannot brood over it, I can only say the results are not important, its the process
that is important.
Next, I am going to touch on the topic - Death.
Death is a subject that most people do not like to hear about, talk about or even think about.
But, whether we like it or not, each and everyone of us will have to die one day. Death is a reality, a fact of life and before we face our own death, we have to face the deaths of other people - family, friends, colleagues etc. It is just like the sun rises and sets and flowers become withered and brown.
However, I feel that we should not live in denial or live in fear about when to die or how are we going to die. Let nature takes its course. Many think that dying is a painful, terrible and slow process. However, on the other side, dying can be a time of learning and growing, it can also be telling us what is important to us in life and it can also enable us to become free from all suffering. Thus, death is not the end of everything, but a gateway into another life. We should accept the fact that everyone is going to die.
Why must we worried about death? We should take death lightly and openly; If we worried when are you going to die, then we are wasting our lives. Thus, it's not as though I'm telling everyone not to worry about dying. Everyone is afraid, so do I. But we should not let the matter of death become a worry to us. We should live our life to the fullest and treasure what we have now.
When a person dies, many of us, regret. Why? We regret not having spent more time with the family, we regret not buying what my family members want to eat, we regret that we did not fulfil his/her last wish. In the end, what do we do? We cry. Crying is all what we know how to do. Is this worth it? We cry over the person's death? As I said, death is a reality. Therefore, don't cry over someone's death.
Instead, cheer, laugh, smile and be glad for the person. You may think that I'm crazy, but it's true. Why do I say that, it's because I am glad that the person is free from suffering and the person does not need to endure all those painful memories already. I'm also glad because I know that I've not regretted about anything. I have spent many happy times and days with that person therefore I am glad that I have no regrets over that person's death. Thus, treasure the time you have with you family, don't wait until they are gone and then you start brooding over it. It's no use. You should be happy because you have spent enough time with that person and you have happy memories of him/her. Keep it with her. Keep those good times that you have spent with him/her.
In this way, you'll have no regrets over the person death and slowly, you'll start to take death lightly. With that, I only have to say, live life to the fullest and have no regrets in your life. Treasure the friendship or time you have with anyone. Even if it means a mere few seconds. Just think, just today, have you ever tell your family or you friends how much you love them, how much you care for them? Have you ever done any housework today for you working and tiring parents? If you hadn't then I only have to say: treasure. Do not wait until the end when they are gone and you start regretting. By that time, I'm sorry to say, it's all too late.
"Death is the only inescapable, unavoidable, sure thing. We are sentenced to die the day we're born."
-Gary Mark Gilmore
tkcare, oneandonly-grace
gRace"]
Next, I know everyone is worried about the results tomorrow.
So do I.
However, what done is done.
You cannot brood over it, I can only say the results are not important, its the process
that is important.
Next, I am going to touch on the topic - Death.
Death is a subject that most people do not like to hear about, talk about or even think about.
But, whether we like it or not, each and everyone of us will have to die one day. Death is a reality, a fact of life and before we face our own death, we have to face the deaths of other people - family, friends, colleagues etc. It is just like the sun rises and sets and flowers become withered and brown.
However, I feel that we should not live in denial or live in fear about when to die or how are we going to die. Let nature takes its course. Many think that dying is a painful, terrible and slow process. However, on the other side, dying can be a time of learning and growing, it can also be telling us what is important to us in life and it can also enable us to become free from all suffering. Thus, death is not the end of everything, but a gateway into another life. We should accept the fact that everyone is going to die.
Why must we worried about death? We should take death lightly and openly; If we worried when are you going to die, then we are wasting our lives. Thus, it's not as though I'm telling everyone not to worry about dying. Everyone is afraid, so do I. But we should not let the matter of death become a worry to us. We should live our life to the fullest and treasure what we have now.
When a person dies, many of us, regret. Why? We regret not having spent more time with the family, we regret not buying what my family members want to eat, we regret that we did not fulfil his/her last wish. In the end, what do we do? We cry. Crying is all what we know how to do. Is this worth it? We cry over the person's death? As I said, death is a reality. Therefore, don't cry over someone's death.
Instead, cheer, laugh, smile and be glad for the person. You may think that I'm crazy, but it's true. Why do I say that, it's because I am glad that the person is free from suffering and the person does not need to endure all those painful memories already. I'm also glad because I know that I've not regretted about anything. I have spent many happy times and days with that person therefore I am glad that I have no regrets over that person's death. Thus, treasure the time you have with you family, don't wait until they are gone and then you start brooding over it. It's no use. You should be happy because you have spent enough time with that person and you have happy memories of him/her. Keep it with her. Keep those good times that you have spent with him/her.
In this way, you'll have no regrets over the person death and slowly, you'll start to take death lightly. With that, I only have to say, live life to the fullest and have no regrets in your life. Treasure the friendship or time you have with anyone. Even if it means a mere few seconds. Just think, just today, have you ever tell your family or you friends how much you love them, how much you care for them? Have you ever done any housework today for you working and tiring parents? If you hadn't then I only have to say: treasure. Do not wait until the end when they are gone and you start regretting. By that time, I'm sorry to say, it's all too late.
"Death is the only inescapable, unavoidable, sure thing. We are sentenced to die the day we're born."
-Gary Mark Gilmore
tkcare, oneandonly-grace
gRace"]
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